Attitude

Attitude is a word which seems to be small but has a big impact. Attitude means to have either a positive approach or a negative approach towards life. It is the way one looks at one’s life or one deals with the problems in one’s life. “Attitude decides your altitude”, think big, get big. The bigger one thinks, the greater one becomes. There are many choices in life but sometimes it is just the choice of ‘attitude’. The only disability in one’s life is a bad attitude. Moreover, our attitude towards life determines, life’s attitude towards us. We cannot change the past… we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on one string we have, that is our attitude. Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it. So we are in charge of our attitudes, chose it.

                    There is a little difference in people, but that little difference makes a big difference. The little difference is attitude. The big difference is whether positive or negative. Let’s start this way , when we always thought negatively did we achieve anything, NO, we didn’t, so for a change lets  think positively, let’s give it a chance. Instead of thinking what one is missing, let’s start thinking what one is having and others are missing. Here is a thought,” Walk on the road as if you are the king or you don’t care who the king is”. Approach brings a paramount change in one’s life.  A man is a product of his thoughts, what he thinks he becomes. When one thinks positive, one has positive result, just believe in one. Be confident and confidence will make one won many battles. Always remember one thing, “Thoughts become things”, means positive thinking, positive product. To enjoy life, love yourself, believe in oneself and one will definitely be living life king size. Always move ahead, never look back, what happened, happened for a reason and has taught one something, believe in one thing, “Past is history ,future is mystery and this moment is a gift, that’s why it’s called  ‘present’”. One should live in present and should not ponder about what happened in past or what will happen in future, NO, don’t think about all this, just live in present and one will make one’s future.

                  The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible and achieves the impossible.             I remember when I was a child; I took part in a 100m race and came third. This disappointed me very much but my mother told me one thing, “try and try until you succeed” and I followed it and when the next time I participated I came first and this made me believe in this great saying even strongly. “Failures are the stepping stone to success”, so never give up. When one fails, one should always remind oneself that to have the bed of ‘roses’, one has to cross the bed of ‘thorns’ and failure is  just one’s success  being postponed. Failures bring out best in one person, they teach us and guide us and if we take the failures with a right attitude, from that point of time onwards we start progressing towards success. There is a famous saying,” Failures should never go to heart and success should never go to head”. I remember once I was having a discussion with one of my friend, he said to me, “Erasers are made for those who make mistakes”, I replied, “Erasers are made for those who are willing to correct their mistakes”,   attitude matters!! When one gets into a tight place, and everything go against one, till it seems as though one could not hold a minute longer, never give up then, for that is the place and time the tide will turn. One should always keep on trying. When there is heavy rain, all birds fly away in search of shelter, its only the eagle which flies high above in the sky, just like this, challenges are common to all it is the attitude that makes difference. Either one can complaint that “roses” have “thorns” or can rejoice that “thorns” have “roses”, life is the way one takes it. What one has to do, is to learn the rules of the game and then play it better than anyone else. Be a leader in one’s life, do not follow the crowd rather lead the crowd. Confidence comes with a positive approach. If one is positive one can win over the world. A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees an opportunity in every difficulty.

                     Never say no to anything in life, accept the way life is coming and focus on one’s approach  because, “what one resists, it persists”.  Always focus on what one wants rather what one doesn’t wants.  Everything in the universe starts with a single thought; try to keep that thought positive. A very famous man said,” I can’t change the direction of the wind but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination”.  This means one cannot change what is happening but one can change one’s attitude towards it. When the sun rises it rises for everyone, so nature has in abundance for, everyone of us, all we have to do is to allow it to enter our life and act upon the opportunity when it comes.

                When we put faith, hope and love together we can raise positive kids in a negative world. Having positive attitude should be the motto of one’s life and everything will fall in its place on its own. Attitude covers everything; it portrays outer as well as inner personality of a human being. Always believe,” whatever the mind can conceive it can achieve”. Life is not measured by how many breaths one take but by how many moments take one’s breath away.  Right attitude, brings right opportunities and makes a right person. Trusting oneself and god is the main essence of attitude. What we imagine, we can have it.  Last words of mine would be live life king size, be an intrepid, be careful than being impetuous and rather than complaining “why me?” always say “try me!!”Rather than life giving one a challenge, give life a challenge.