Morning Awakeness!

Today, I have got with a ball of energy. I feel so full of enthusiasm and vigour as if this universe is my paradise. I guess its the effect of the most powerful of the season. I feel so cleansed, pure and clear. Yesterday, I did small ritual that was writting down all the things that serves me no long and are creating a stuck energy. I wrote every bit of my emotions, felt them completely and as I burnt the paper I felt them leaving my body.

I got up as a new person with a rejuvenated energy and life. I feel amazing and I feel I have started a new chapter of my life with this day and I don't know why I was stopping myself from living this. I feel I have to do so much of new things and wined up all the old.

I believe we get so stuck living the old that we forget we have chance in every situation to choose and make it our day. Rather, than mourning over the old, I think its time to celebrate the new and get the sunshine.

Stop singing the old song 10,000 times a day, its time to write a new song, new lyrics all from your heart. Write your own song today,

For now, just write down all that doesn't serve you. Let it go. You didn't come in this life to cry and settle for anything less. You came in this life to live, enjoy and celebrate as everyday being your day. Take yourself out today and just immerse in the gratitude of the day.

Its your life, so let the gear of your car be in your control not in anyone else's control. Just take yourself out and breathe in the power of freedom, rejuvenation and completeness within.

How to overcome the conflicts and get what you desire?

A video on parts integration. How to overcome the conflicts and get what you desire?

Love has its various ways (Habit of creating drama)

The sweetness of travelling alone

I am a girl in my twenties and whenever I spoke to my friends about travelling alone they raised their eyebrows and my parents got triggered and thought I wanted to run away.
 I always wanted to travel alone and experience a life where you know no one and have no one.
The thought filled me with awe and zest. This time I promised myself to travel to a new country and unravel it.
  I am pursuing my masters in Travel Journalism in Barcelona at UAB and for our masters project each group was given a country to do a project on. Our project was based in Naples, Italy.

    Initially we thought it will be challenging as the weather is harsh and there is mafia, But
sooner did we knew we were all geared up for a new experience of our lives. We are eight people in our group and everyone having a particular category to write abut such as culture, religion, music, family, gastronomy, so on and forth. We all travelled together and discovered amazing facts about the city and met new people. Somedays we travelled alone and discovered our beat.
  The zest of knowing the unknown kept us going in the heat and made us walk each day 15kms. We went to the volcano and Pompeye (the volcano city), beaches, churches where the miracles happened, the catacombs, the best pizza places, tasting limonchello (local lemon drink), Napoleon food, Caffe del nonno( best coffee I have ever tasted), the fried pizzas and many more adventurous things. I loved the group work and how we explored everything together. I was so blessed to be in this group.

  The highlight of Naples for me was when I went to Pizzeria de Michelle where Julia Roberts went while shooting Eat, Pray and Love. It was such a magnificent experience as I am a huge fan of the movie and because of the movie I wanted to travel alone as well as to Italy. In that moment I felt the whole universe aligning things for me which I had always desired.

  After Naples my travel alone started. I spent 4 days in Rome and met most amazing hostellers and spent days knowing fabulous people and doing some really stupid stuffs after that I would say, what happens in Rome shall stay in Rome. (*WINK*)
  My journey continued to Florence and I met a pakistani person there outside a church, who showed me around and made the day magnificient for me. I saw the most amazing sunset and the whole city of florence brimming with the sunrays. It was a life time experience.
 The next day I wanted to go to to Piza and Chinque terre but I didn't know how to do it alone and in one day as both of the places need time. Another miracle happened, at the breakfast table I met a South- African woman(Chifunilo) who seemed interesting and I introduced myself to her and asked if she would like to come along and she hopped in. We became amazing friends and we had stories to share. We unravelled leaning tower of Piza for us which was always a dream and later the most beautiful villages  (Chinque Terre means 5 lands). As we were short of time we could only see Riomaggiore, Vernazza and Manarola. But I was blessed to experience the beauty of the villages.

  My last destination was Venice, I always wanted to see venice, I booked a sharing car to reach there as all other transports were very expensive and in that car I made two another friends and we tagged along and walked all over venice creating new stories. I lived in a camping site in Venice which was another different experience and a delightful one.
 I would say travel alone, build yourself, know yourself and discover yourself. In this journey of more than twenty days I learnt a lot about myself and met people from different walks of life and with a different experience. This world is a beautiful place and safe too. Just pack your bags and write your own story.

How to get rid of drama?

I experienced two heavy months of misconception and problem with everyone around me. These months taught me an important thing, that this very world is just an illusion and the only real world we have is the one inside us. As what we are is reflected to us. If we have drama inside us then so is reflected to us in zillion of ways. Its up to us how to cut off the drama from our lives.


There is a famous saying, "when you squeeze an orange what comes out is orange juice." So when life squeezes you what comes out is what's within. So if you are experiencing more drama in your life and relationships then that is existing in you and you have to fix yourself not the outside world.

How do you fix drama in your life?


1. Analyze the drama creating people: See how many people in your immediate circle are always complaining and having problems.

2. Analyse your drama creating characteristics: Now you know drama creating people in your life, so its time to analyze your issues that are attracting such people. As we always attract what we are. So, if there is so much drama going on in your life then there must be some unhealed emotions inside you causing this. Unhealed emotions could be: your family has always been about drama, you have always been an attention seeker, you have always felt non-existent and many more.

3. Find an alignment: The more aligned you are with what you want the less drama you have in your life. You need to know what you want and remove the unwanted weeds. Now, as you know your issues work on them. Try sorting yourself more, hear yourself out, write down your thought or seek a professional. Clean your energy as much as you can.

4. Reality Check: You would know that whatever you are doing is working when the drama people will start leaving your life, you will feel more content with yourself and less neediness. Such people will automatically exit your life or you will hardly encounter such people.

5. Congratualtions! You have come into alignment with yourself as you worked on:

•  What wasn't serving you.
• Cleared your energy.
• Aligned yourself
• Now you are content and happy!

A journey: Introspection

A journey: Introspection: “Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” - Aristotle We all are living a life, some are aware and some are just passing ...

Introspection

“Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” - Aristotle

We all are living a life, some are aware and some are just passing through, How many of us has ever questioned ourselves what do we want? Most of us have been just passing through by getting the best grades, serving the families, earning well and so on and so forth. But despite all this do you feel there is a piece missing and does that haunt you as you are unaware about it?

Yes, there is a missing piece which can only be met by introspection. Do you even know who are you? Have you ever sat down and asked yourself why are you here? What do you desire out of this life?

I'm sure this questions would have passed through your minds but you must have been so busy doing your chores that you didn't pay heed to it. But what if I tell you that the missing feeling which you have been feeling for years despite having it all and doing it all is introspection and digging a bit deeper will complete your puzzle.

Maybe the day you will sit with yourself and pay attention to your ideas and love for yourself, you might be able to figure out what do you want and what are you here for? Maybe that won't happen overnight but it is a step-by-step process. Follow your first curiosity and then let it lead to another.

Imagine a day you sat down with yourself by mustering all the courage and try understanding yourself and your life and then you ask yourself how do I want my life to be five years down the line? what happens next is that you feel struck as you don't see your life going anywhere near to what you want as you never thought you were important in your life. It has always been your parents or boyfriend or someone else for whom and according to whom you have been living. But just for heaven's sake imagine a day where you had no chains, no responsibilities, no liabilities, then what would you have done? You have your answer, you aren't a puppet of fear here. Live your life to the fullest possible.

I have lived someone's life for years, when lately I realized it wasn't serving me and I was the one missing in my life rest I had a happy family picture. So, I took the responsibility to make myself feel important and broke all the chains of control and fear and started a life I had always wanted. It isn't easy but its totally worth it. Everyday I work harder than yesterday but the good thing is I exist in my life, I am not pleasing anyone anymore and I am doing everything for myself and this is called self-care not selfishness. If you won't stand up for yourself then no one ever know what life you wanted. Let the world know your story and not someone else's story.

It's your life and introspect what do you want and how do you want things to shape up and put your efforts accordingly, be your own person and its time to start living your own life.

Let me know your story! If you don't have yet, then maybe its time to create one!